Have you experienced abuse in childhood?
Have you used food or eating disorders to cope?
Are you ready to move forward into the light?
Reaching adulthood after childhood experience of any form of abuse takes immense courage and can be a painful and lonely journey, it’s one I’ve experienced. If you’ve developed an eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia, emotional eating or used food to cope with abuse, then you are not alone. Sadly it’s quite common for clients to tell me how they’ve held their ‘secrets’ for many years in fear of reprisals, that their disclosures will hurt their families or in fear that they wouldn’t be believed. How can they possibly expect anyone to understand the devastation, pain and hurt of something that happened years ago?
The truth is it often feels like the abuse is still happening, the mention of a name, a smell, photographs, family reunions, almost anything can trigger a flash back. It’s hardly suprising that survivors look for ways to cope with these distressing thoughts and feelings, however damaging these mechanisms may be. The good news is we’re talking about it now and there is professional help out there. I would always recommend you seek support with your journey to wellbeing and this can take the form of therapy/coaching or informative websites and helplines. If you’ve suffered any kind of abuse and subsequently developed an eating disorder or distress, you needn’t be alone and it may be you start the day by telling someone you trust about your ’secret’. It’s a positive first step.
You can contact me to discuss your needs, your goals and how you want your life to be. Together we can move forward and away from the darkness. I’m empathetic and supportive, motivational and enthusiastic. I believe I offer something unique.
Other resources that may be helpful include:
www.napac.org.uk The Nationally Association for Adults Abused in Childhood
www.safelinewarwick.co.uk UK Charity offering information and support
www.abuse-survivors.org.uk A useful and easy to navigate resource
www.sasian.org Information on sibling abuse
www.b-eat.co.uk Uk largest resource for eating disorders information
www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male Male survivors support
www.mengetedstoo.co.uk A website dedicated to supporting Males with eating disorders
You’re not alone, today we’ll move clouds, tomorrow mountains…
© Jayne Cox 2010
